Bash 2026

Aimed at those either new kink or just new to GWNN, we briefly discuss the history and purpose of GWNN; before delving into CONSENT, negotiation, and expectations.


Bring ALL your questions!

Ever call yourself stupid, fat, or ugly? What if every time you did, someone made you stop and apologize to yourself and then follow it up with a compliment? Welcome to the wonderfully humiliating, oddly healing world of forced self-love.

This class explores how kink, accountability, and a little bit of sass can be used to break the cycle of negative self-talk. We’ll dig into what happened when a notoriously self-deprecating submissive was required to compliment himself every time he insulted… himself. Along the way, we’ll touch on the psychology behind it (think Cognitive Behavioral Therapy and other sneaky tools you already have in your pocket), laugh at the awkwardness, and maybe even learn to say something nice in the mirror without cringing.

**We do encourage group involvement but it is not mandatory**

Disclaimer: I am not a licensed therapist or behavioral specialist. I’m just mean enough to make people be nice to themselves

Secret is kinky, her husband is not. After 20+ years together we have seen relationship come and go, traversing the journey together the good, the bad and the ugly. In this class we want to help provide you tools to navigate this pitfall ridden landscape of entering and maintaining poly relationships. We will discuss the importance of communications and ways of spotting possible future problems. We want to help you build your tool box for better healthier poly relationships with and without kinks. Relationships are not easy but when you have the right tools it can be less difficult.

This class is for people who have kinky and NeuroSpicy brains and those who are friends, lovers, community members, and/or play with the same. We respect our neurotypical people, but do know that neurovariant voices will be centered and at the forefront of this discussion.


Lady Steele is a Femme Lesbian Alpha Leather slave who is AuDHD and has been formally diagnosed with civilian PTSD, anxiety, and depression. She manages bouts of Executive Dysfunction regularly. Master Meta is a Leatherman who is AuDHD, has OSDD (where at least one identity has merged), and has been formally diagnosed with veteran PTSD, SUD, anxiety, and depression. By the time GWNN Bash comes around in June of 2026 his goal is to be one year and one month sober from alcohol.


They were inspired by their own experiences to bring forward the discussion about what it means to have variations in the human brain as a person who lives the kink life.

In this class you will learn:

1. What is considered to be neurovariant?
2. When do neurovariances need to be discussed, if at all?
3. How do neurovariances affect negotiation, play, and aftercare?

You well also hear frank stories about what it is like to be a person in the kink life that has neurovariances and how those variances affect their peraonal lives. Other topics included in this class is how neurovariances can affect best practices when it comes to safety. Personal responsibility on the part of the neurovariant will be addressed.

A discussion on why saying NO may be difficult but does that mean your dynamic is over. Hearing NO from your partner can be  interpreted as disobedience or rejection and taken personally, yet it's likely not the case. Being aware of why someone is saying NO and conversely not being afraid or shy to say NO, are both important factors in avoiding hurt feelings, feelings of rejection or anger.

We will cover negotiation, setup, staging, and cooldown after the scene.  Interrogations as a form of play can be difficult inside the community since physical intimidation can be a reward, and potentially an incentive to resist.  


Working with the headspace of the target is the key to a successful scene.

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This workshop explores the intersection of kink and autism, co-led by a neurotypical facilitator and an autistic co-facilitator. Together, they blend professional knowledge and lived experience to create a space that is both educational and affirming.


The session begins with grounding agreements and an overview of how autism shapes sensory processing, communication, and social interaction. Participants will learn why kink can be especially meaningful for autistic individuals — from the comfort of clear rules and structure to the richness of sensory play.


We then address challenges, including sensory overstimulation, triggers, meltdowns, and shutdowns. Strategies for support are shared, such as negotiation styles, non-verbal safewords, overstimulation “emergency plans,” and tailored aftercare. Attendees will participate in small group activities to practice designing coping strategies that respect neurodiverse needs.


The workshop also celebrates autistic strengths in kink — deep focus, creativity, passion for ritual, and honesty in communication. Participants will be invited to recognize these traits as superpowers, not deficits.

Finally, we bridge neurotypical and autistic communication styles, offering practical techniques to foster respect and connection. Through roleplay exercises, attendees will practice adapting negotiation and scene planning for clarity and accessibility.

Bootblacking doesn’t have to stop at licking boots — and sitting in the stand can be so much more than passively enjoying attention on your leathers. In this class, we’ll explore ways to turn bootblacking into a deeply erotic, interactive experience.

From seductive techniques that coax out an irresistible shine to playful, distracting, and intimate methods of washing and conditioning leather garments, this class dives into how to blend kink, service, and sexual energy seamlessly.
Whether you’re a bootblack looking to spice up your craft or a bottom who loves the ritual of the stand, you’ll learn creative ways to bring heat, flirtation, and power exchange into every step of the process.

Sex is not a requirement of being in a dynamic, unfortunately that is often misunderstood as are those who are in sexless dynamics. Asexuality is the lack of sexual attraction to others, or low or absent interest in or desire for sexual activity. Discussing the different circumstances and/or preferences people may have that lead them to be in asexual dynamics and what these dynamics may look like.

Negotiation is one of the most important — and most overlooked — parts of kink and BDSM. It’s how we transform curiosity into consent, boundaries into creativity, and risk into connection. This interactive workshop explores how negotiation can be practical, playful, and deeply sexy.


To start, we’ll focus on teaching core skills for scene negotiation. Topics include the difference between inclusive vs. exclusive negotiation, making negotiation engaging instead of clinical, and understanding when to ask for a spotter or dungeon monitor. Participants will gain tools to structure conversations, identify boundaries, and express desires clearly and confidently.


Following will be an open discussion. We’ll unpack real-life challenges and successes, ask how negotiation styles shift across dynamics, and consider how cultural backgrounds, experience levels, and play styles shape consent conversations. This section gives space for participants to reflect, share, and learn from one another.


Finally, the most exciting part will bring it all to life through improv negotiation exercises. Volunteers will practice short negotiation scenarios, with the group offering feedback and reflection after each. Prompts will range from playful banter to high-stakes discussions, giving everyone a chance to see how negotiation looks and feels in action.


Whether you’re brand new to the scene or an experienced player looking to refresh your skills, this class is for you!

This relaxed, low-pressure social is designed specifically for kink conference attendees on the autism spectrum and those who love and support them. Join us for an autism-affirming space that prioritizes clear communication, consent, and sensory awareness.


The mixer will offer a calmer environment than typical socials, with flexible seating, optional conversation prompts, and permission to engage at your own pace — whether that means chatting, listening, or simply sharing space. No expectations, no forced interaction.


This gathering celebrates neurodiversity in kink and provides an opportunity to connect with others who understand autistic experiences, interests, and communication styles. Allies and partners are welcome, provided they respect the purpose of the space.


Come build community, make connections, or just exist comfortably among fellow kinksters who get it — exactly as you are.

This class focuses on lessons learned from past relationships and how to take the experiences of your past to move forward and build strong foundations.

Breakups can be tough, but they don't have to break you. Join us for an empowering journey where we'll explore the art of surviving separation; from understanding the science behind the pain they carry, to learning researched based strategies to prepare and manage separation effectively with a lens of compassion and personal power.

Consensual Non-Consent, or CNC is an oft brought up practice, but rarely is the matter thoroughly discussed nor the potential concerns with this type of negotiation clearly identified.


We will discuss the mentalities at play with CNC, strategies for these types of negotiations, potential pitfalls, and we will have a robust Q&A Session.


This class will provide tips & suggestions for the Doms & Tops taking the lead in these negotiations, however bottoms & subs are strongly encouraged to attend!


Negotiate with equal power, especially when it comes to CNC.