Bash 2026

Aimed at those either new kink or just new to GWNN, we briefly discuss the history and purpose of GWNN; before delving into CONSENT, negotiation, and expectations.


Bring ALL your questions!

A in-depth but beginner friendly lecture with question-answer elements to explore negotiation skills and specifics. Attendees will learn about self-advocacy, knowing their own limits, and what to do if something goes wrong.

Consent a simple concept, right - get permission to do something to someone, give permission to someone to do something. Ok you got the yes, now what? Let's talk about and consider what comes with the yes. Consent has layers and encompasses more than just a play scene when you're in a dynamic.

Negotiation is one of the most important — and most overlooked — parts of kink and BDSM. It’s how we transform curiosity into consent, boundaries into creativity, and risk into connection. This interactive workshop explores how negotiation can be practical, playful, and deeply sexy.


To start, we’ll focus on teaching core skills for scene negotiation. Topics include the difference between inclusive vs. exclusive negotiation, making negotiation engaging instead of clinical, and understanding when to ask for a spotter or dungeon monitor. Participants will gain tools to structure conversations, identify boundaries, and express desires clearly and confidently.


Following will be an open discussion. We’ll unpack real-life challenges and successes, ask how negotiation styles shift across dynamics, and consider how cultural backgrounds, experience levels, and play styles shape consent conversations. This section gives space for participants to reflect, share, and learn from one another.


Finally, the most exciting part will bring it all to life through improv negotiation exercises. Volunteers will practice short negotiation scenarios, with the group offering feedback and reflection after each. Prompts will range from playful banter to high-stakes discussions, giving everyone a chance to see how negotiation looks and feels in action.


Whether you’re brand new to the scene or an experienced player looking to refresh your skills, this class is for you!

Have you ever fallen for someone who seemed perfect, only to discover the relationship was built on manipulation and control? In this powerful class, I share what I’ve learned from navigating a toxic, abusive relationship-tracking the early charm, subtle control, and deep emotional manipulation that can trap someone for years.


This session goes beyond naming red flags. You’ll explore how manipulation can feel loving or protective, how emotional abuse can masquerade as care, and how to recognize warning signs even when they’re subtle or disguised as affection. Through my personal story, we’ll uncover the patterns that keep people trapped and examine the emotional, mental, and physical impact of long-term manipulation.


This class is not about shame or blame-it’s about understanding, healing, and empowerment. You’ll learn to identify early warning signs, recognize cycles of abuse, and understand why red flags can feel seductive or “normal.” We’ll also focus on reclaiming your voice, boundaries, and confidence, and transforming painful lessons into strength and self-awareness.


Whether you’re in a challenging relationship, supporting someone who is, or want to protect yourself in the future, this class offers insight, practical tools, and hope for breaking free and building healthier dynamics.

Breakups can be tough, but they don't have to break you. Join us for an empowering journey where we'll explore the art of surviving separation; from understanding the science behind the pain they carry, to learning researched based strategies to prepare and manage separation effectively with a lens of compassion and personal power.

This interactive workshop explores the intersection of self-care and kink/BDSM, providing attendees with practical tools and insights to engage in play mindfully and responsibly. While kink offers unique opportunities for empowerment, emotional release, and connection, it can also be misused as avoidance or lead to burnout. This session equips participants to recognize both the benefits and limits of kink as a form of self-care.


The first part offers structured guidance on:

• How kink can support emotional, mental, and physical well-being.
• Identifying when kink is a positive outlet versus when it may be counterproductive.
• Using negotiation, consent, and aftercare as integral self-care practices.

The second part is devoted to guided discussion, encouraging participants to reflect on personal experiences, boundaries, and strategies. Through structured prompts in a confidential, judgment-free environment, attendees share insights and learn from each other, enhancing their understanding of healthy engagement in kink.


By the conclusion of the workshop, participants will leave with actionable strategies to integrate kink into their self-care routines, recognize when to step back, and build resilience through complementary practices. Designed for attendees of all experience levels and identities, this session emphasizes inclusivity, safety, and community support, making it a highly relevant and practical addition to any kink-focused conference program.