Bash 2026

This workshop explores the intersection of kink and autism, co-led by a neurotypical facilitator and an autistic co-facilitator. Together, they blend professional knowledge and lived experience to create a space that is both educational and affirming.


The session begins with grounding agreements and an overview of how autism shapes sensory processing, communication, and social interaction. Participants will learn why kink can be especially meaningful for autistic individuals — from the comfort of clear rules and structure to the richness of sensory play.


We then address challenges, including sensory overstimulation, triggers, meltdowns, and shutdowns. Strategies for support are shared, such as negotiation styles, non-verbal safewords, overstimulation “emergency plans,” and tailored aftercare. Attendees will participate in small group activities to practice designing coping strategies that respect neurodiverse needs.


The workshop also celebrates autistic strengths in kink — deep focus, creativity, passion for ritual, and honesty in communication. Participants will be invited to recognize these traits as superpowers, not deficits.

Finally, we bridge neurotypical and autistic communication styles, offering practical techniques to foster respect and connection. Through roleplay exercises, attendees will practice adapting negotiation and scene planning for clarity and accessibility.

Bootblacking doesn’t have to stop at licking boots — and sitting in the stand can be so much more than passively enjoying attention on your leathers. In this class, we’ll explore ways to turn bootblacking into a deeply erotic, interactive experience.

From seductive techniques that coax out an irresistible shine to playful, distracting, and intimate methods of washing and conditioning leather garments, this class dives into how to blend kink, service, and sexual energy seamlessly.
Whether you’re a bootblack looking to spice up your craft or a bottom who loves the ritual of the stand, you’ll learn creative ways to bring heat, flirtation, and power exchange into every step of the process.

Sex is not a requirement of being in a dynamic, unfortunately that is often misunderstood as are those who are in sexless dynamics. Asexuality is the lack of sexual attraction to others, or low or absent interest in or desire for sexual activity. Discussing the different circumstances and/or preferences people may have that lead them to be in asexual dynamics and what these dynamics may look like.

Negotiation is one of the most important — and most overlooked — parts of kink and BDSM. It’s how we transform curiosity into consent, boundaries into creativity, and risk into connection. This interactive workshop explores how negotiation can be practical, playful, and deeply sexy.


To start, we’ll focus on teaching core skills for scene negotiation. Topics include the difference between inclusive vs. exclusive negotiation, making negotiation engaging instead of clinical, and understanding when to ask for a spotter or dungeon monitor. Participants will gain tools to structure conversations, identify boundaries, and express desires clearly and confidently.


Following will be an open discussion. We’ll unpack real-life challenges and successes, ask how negotiation styles shift across dynamics, and consider how cultural backgrounds, experience levels, and play styles shape consent conversations. This section gives space for participants to reflect, share, and learn from one another.


Finally, the most exciting part will bring it all to life through improv negotiation exercises. Volunteers will practice short negotiation scenarios, with the group offering feedback and reflection after each. Prompts will range from playful banter to high-stakes discussions, giving everyone a chance to see how negotiation looks and feels in action.


Whether you’re brand new to the scene or an experienced player looking to refresh your skills, this class is for you!