Bash 2026

Secret is kinky, her husband is not. After 20+ years together we have seen relationship come and go, traversing the journey together the good, the bad and the ugly. In this class we want to help provide you tools to navigate this pitfall ridden landscape of entering and maintaining poly relationships. We will discuss the importance of communications and ways of spotting possible future problems. We want to help you build your tool box for better healthier poly relationships with and without kinks. Relationships are not easy but when you have the right tools it can be less difficult.

This class is for people who have kinky and NeuroSpicy brains and those who are friends, lovers, community members, and/or play with the same. We respect our neurotypical people, but do know that neurovariant voices will be centered and at the forefront of this discussion.


Lady Steele is a Femme Lesbian Alpha Leather slave who is AuDHD and has been formally diagnosed with civilian PTSD, anxiety, and depression. She manages bouts of Executive Dysfunction regularly. Master Meta is a Leatherman who is AuDHD, has OSDD (where at least one identity has merged), and has been formally diagnosed with veteran PTSD, SUD, anxiety, and depression. By the time GWNN Bash comes around in June of 2026 his goal is to be one year and one month sober from alcohol.


They were inspired by their own experiences to bring forward the discussion about what it means to have variations in the human brain as a person who lives the kink life.

In this class you will learn:

1. What is considered to be neurovariant?
2. When do neurovariances need to be discussed, if at all?
3. How do neurovariances affect negotiation, play, and aftercare?

You well also hear frank stories about what it is like to be a person in the kink life that has neurovariances and how those variances affect their peraonal lives. Other topics included in this class is how neurovariances can affect best practices when it comes to safety. Personal responsibility on the part of the neurovariant will be addressed.

A discussion on why saying NO may be difficult but does that mean your dynamic is over. Hearing NO from your partner can be  interpreted as disobedience or rejection and taken personally, yet it's likely not the case. Being aware of why someone is saying NO and conversely not being afraid or shy to say NO, are both important factors in avoiding hurt feelings, feelings of rejection or anger.

We will cover negotiation, setup, staging, and cooldown after the scene.  Interrogations as a form of play can be difficult inside the community since physical intimidation can be a reward, and potentially an incentive to resist.  


Working with the headspace of the target is the key to a successful scene.

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